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Write to Me
A good note does not need to be polished. It needs to be clear, courteous and genuinely intended. Everything below exists to make that easy.
A thoughtful note is
the loveliest place to begin.
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A good note includes
- Your preferred date.
- Duration: which invitation, or simply the hours.
- Location or city.
- Whether you write solo, as a couple, or as a woman.
- The atmosphere you have in mind.
- A brief, honest introduction.
What happens next
I read every note myself. A brief introduction helps me sense whether the evening has the right kind of possibility. If it does, I reply within a day; screening is completed discreetly, and once the deposit is received the date is confirmed. Signal may be shared after a suitable introduction. It is not a first-contact channel. If a day passes in silence, please look in your spam folder before assuming the worst; replies do occasionally land there.
If you like to check first
Sensible. My profile on Tryst is verified and says what this site says. Check me there, then write here, where the conversation is private.
If you are nervous writing this
Say so in the note. It reads as honesty, and nobody has ever lost ground with me by saying it. You are also welcome to be direct if you prefer clear expectations; directness with courtesy is always well received. First time entirely? Your First Evening walks through everything.
“She knows how to make you feel comfortable, and how to guide you if you feel a little lost.”
If you have never said this to anyone
For a good many people who write to me, this is the first time they have said any of it out loud, to anyone. If that is true for you, it lands somewhere safe here, and it goes no further than me. You are simply telling one person something true. That is a smaller and kinder act than it feels like before you press send.
You are here to be met
You are met here. Nothing about this is an audition. You come to be wanted, and the wanting is where the evening actually starts.
This form contains no tracking. Please do not include sensitive documents in a first message. Those details are arranged privately after a suitable introduction.