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The premise, agreed
The scenario is written before the evening, by note, together. Who we are, where we meet, how it starts. Half the pleasure is in the plotting; I contribute shamelessly.
Experiences · An evening in character
Roleplay
This site already believes an evening is a kind of theatre. Roleplay simply admits it out loud. Two people, a premise, and the delicious discipline of staying in it: strangers who meet at a hotel bar, an interview that goes somewhere interviews should not, old flames colliding in the wrong city. Imagination is the most underrated aphrodisiac there is.
I studied people for years. Playing one more is easy.
How the curtain rises
A play in three acts
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The delicious commitment
A premise only works if both people protect it. I stay in character with a straight face and a glint. The moment you almost break is, frankly, what I play for.
III
The scene finds its own ending
Good scenes are doors: they open into the real evening whenever we let them. However far we take it, the two people underneath have agreed on everything that matters.
This suits you if
Roleplay is for
- The imaginative, and the secretly imaginative who never had a stage.
- Guests who love the first-meeting spark and want to feel it twice with the same woman.
- The storyteller, the film-lover, the one with a premise he has never said out loud.
- Returning guests especially: familiarity makes the pretending both easier and funnier.
And not for
Anyone whose scenario is a way to smuggle past a boundary: the character agrees to nothing the woman has not. No premise involving coercion played straight, nothing that mocks real people in our lives, and nothing the two actual adults in the room have not both chosen. The play is fiction; the consent is not.
The practical part
Written in advance, like all good scripts
Sketch your premise in the note. A sentence is enough; I will help write the rest. If you would rather I propose the scenario, say so: I have a repertoire and no shame about it. Favourite films are fair game too: a Bond cold open, Mr. & Mrs. Smith over dinner, strangers on a night train à la Before Sunrise, or the slow-burn duel of The Thomas Crown Affair.
Arrangements unchanged: screening, deposit, hours per The Hours. Scenes love time: four hours minimum, six if the premise deserves a slow burn. Pairs perfectly with a suite evening. And should a scene call for something specific to be acquired, a particular outfit or a prop worth owning, it is arranged and settled in advance, like any shared expense.
Asked and answered
What if I feel silly?
You will, for about ninety seconds; everyone does, including professional actors. Then the premise takes over and silly becomes the last word on your mind. Choosing a simple scenario for a first scene helps enormously.
Costumes and props?
Wardrobe, gladly: I dress for the role with enthusiasm. Anything beyond wardrobe should be raised in the note, and modesty of means is no obstacle: the best prop in any scene is commitment.
Curtain at eight
Send me a premise worth playing.
Your date, the hours, the city, and the opening line of a scene. I will take it from there, in character.
We have met before. We simply have not decided where yet.